how to be confident

 how to be confident 

confidence can get you incredibly far in life and make everything a lot easier; i consider myself a really confident person, so here are a few tips that might help you get there !!

👸🏻 eliminate toxic people ; i don't care if it's your best friend or your boyfriend, if they are stopping you from being the best version of yourself, it's time to say goodbye. 

👸🏻 fix your posture ; confident people have good posture, and i know that your posture is not it rn, so please straighten that BACK 💋

👸🏻 do what makes you happy ; who tf cares what people have to sat about it? let them talk shit about you they will do nothing but talk behind your back and you will stayyyyy winning. if it's good for you, do it babe 🫶🏻

👸🏻 tell yourself you're that girl ; nobody will believe it if you don't do it, so hype yourself up boo !!!!

👸🏻 practice eye contact ; i can just tell someone is confident if they can look me in the eyes while having a conversatiob. it seems much harder that it actually is; pick one of their eyes and just focus on it while you talk. 

👸🏻 speak with tone and expression ; talking in a quiet and monotone manner doesn't necessarily make you look insecure, but talking with expression just sounds more confident. 

👸🏻 make your hands visible ; when you hide your hands, it makes you look insecure and uncomfortable.

👸🏻 mind your own business ; this one is really simple. don't be like the other backstabbing people and talk behind people's back just mind your own business and be at peace it helps you a lot believe me.

👸🏻 don't tell people your insecuritiesl because 99% of the time, they didn't notice them before you pointed them out annnnnd they might wish negativity upon you so learn from that please 💌

👸🏻 accept compliments ; if someone says you look good, don't be like "oh noooo, i look AWFUL" just say thank you and accept the compliment :)

👸🏻 stop over-apologizing in fact do not even apologize at ALL ; if you say sorry all the time people will definitely think that you are WEAK and you do not want that obviously. so only apologize if you did something REALLY and i mean really bad but other than that, do not apologize. 

👸🏻 visualize the person you want to be ; it's pretty simple, think about who you want to be, then think about how that person acts, their routine, how they talk etc... and slowly start adapting those habits.

👸🏻 don't be nervous to ask for help ; instead, change your mindset, people want to help you !!

👸🏻 authethicity radiates ; be true to yourself, and you will attract good people like a magnet.

👸🏻 no one is out of your league ; if you act like it. this entire 'league' thing is made up, so don't put yourself in a box. 

👸🏻 trust yourself ; you have a bad feeling? you know it and act on it. if you feel like something is not right, it's probably not. trust yourself !!!!! 

👸🏻 stay calm under pressure ; it's crucial not to freak out under pressure, even if you do, try acting as if everything is under control. 

👸🏻 when entering a room, don't be on your phone ; look around, introduce yourself, greet people etc. 

👸🏻 smile more :)

👸🏻 walk like you know where you're going ; even if you don't lolz

👸🏻 live for YOURSELF ; constantly work on not caring what other people think. if you like it, you post it. if you want to go there, go. if you like that outfit, wear it. make decisions for yourself, not for others to validate you. it's your world, and every decision you make is because you want to make it yourself !!

✩‧₊*:・love ya ･:*₊‧✩ - bella ♡